A personalized, confidential matchmaking experience for discerning individuals who expect excellence in every aspect of life.
Your privacy is paramount. Every interaction is handled with the utmost discretion and professionalism.
Backed by a proven track record and an award‑winning matchmaking service committed to exceptional results.
We actively search, screen, interview, and fully vet each potential match while you continue your busy life.
A boutique agency offering a customized, dignified alternative to leaving love to chance.
A refined, relationship-first approach designed to foster genuine, lasting connections.
Trusted for over 15 years as one of the nation’s premier matchmaking firms.
Join our curated matchmaking network. Your profile helps us understand your relationship preferences and thoughtfully match you with individuals who align with your long-term goals.
As part of our network, you’ll receive a complimentary discovery call with us. You’ll gain insight into your key dating challenges, walk away with actionable guidance, and—if there’s a strong fit— be invited to explore working together more closely.
Once we begin working together, we handle every detail, vetting, curating, and thoughtfully selecting your matches. From there, you show up and enjoy the experience. Our process is discreet, intentional, and designed to connect you with the right person sooner.
After each meeting, you’ll reflect privately with Barbara. She listens for what worked, what lingered, and what didn’t quite land. She’ll give you feedback from your date. Then she and Nancy refine your blueprint based on real, human insights.
Award Winning Matchmaker
At Elegant Introductions, your love story is shaped personally by two extraordinary founders whose complementary talents make our firm unlike any other.
Together, Barbara Black Goldfarb’s elite network and Nancy Gold Zimmer’s psychological mastery create a boutique, founder-led experience, fully private, meticulously tailored, and reserved for discerning singles who refuse to leave love to chance. When we call ourselves matchmakers, we mean personal allies who curate every detail, listen between the lines, and celebrate your success as our own. Welcome to Elegant Introductions, where two visionary women blend intellect, intuition, and heart to find the one person worthy of sharing your remarkable life.
Please contact Elegant Introductions, the nation’s foremost matchmakers.
Are you too busy to waste time with disappointing dates?
You are not alone. Our discerning clients are just like you and share the desire to meet a loving companion. While finding a date is easy for you, finding someone who meets your hopes and dreams is more difficult. If you’re looking for someone who shares your values, goals, lifestyle needs, and sophistication, then ordinary dating services probably won’t do. Whatever the reason, if your current approach doesn’t seem to be working, don’t worry, we’re here to help.
Especially when you’re accustomed to excellence in all areas of your life, finding “the one” can be challenging. In fact, early mornings and late nights focused on your professional success leave little time to find a match at your level.
Just as you hire professionals like personal trainers, financial planners, and real estate brokers, you understand the value of outsourcing your search to experts. As you continue your busy lives, we actively search, thoroughly screen, carefully interview, and fully vet each potential match.
AWARD-WINNING MATCHMAKER
We are most proud of the meaningful matches we have created for thousands of elite singles. With our 92% success rate, we continue to bring love to the world through our personalized and highly selective matchmaking process. We offer a customized, dignified alternative to leaving love to chance or online dating. We’re confidential, we’re convenient, and we have a lot of heart.
El is a small, privately owned company with extensive connections to C- suite business leaders, professionals, philanthropic organizations, and deep, extensive roots in your community. We work closely with each client and get to know them and their desires at a deep level, offering guidance as needed. Nothing can surpass the discrete, dignified, personalized service we offer.
Remaining a boutique agency has allowed us, the founders, to personally work with you to provide a hands-on, customized service to every client. As Cofounders, we bring a Clinical Psychologist, a Community leader/Board Member, and a Philanthropist with a deep, broad network.
We’ll do whatever it takes to find the exceptional match that you desire, find you “the one.” You won’t settle in your romantic life, and neither will we. We’ll leave no stone unturned to find you “the one.” We’d love to be your trusted guide and resource to help you achieve your personal dreams. After all, we want to bring more love into the world… your success and happiness are our #1 goal. Whether you are Jewish, Christian, Spiritual, Not Religious, or any other denomination, we can help.
We’d love to meet you face to face. Yes, every relationship begins with trust, and we are thrilled that our clients refer to us as their advisor, friend, confidant, and often miracle worker. Come see why.
“Barbara and Nancy, a world of thank you for setting me up with Michael and bringing such a wonderful man into my life. I’ve never been so in love with someone and cannot wait to spend the rest of our lives together.”
Age 29
Hedge Fund CEO, 42
“Your countless acts of kindness, encouragement and guidance have made a profound impact on my life. You personify the term ‘game changer’ and go further — you are a ‘life changer.'”
Client
“What a remarkable duo for matchmaking! One is a determined shark who has set me up with all great men. I have nothing bad to say about any of my dates. They were all kind gentlemen who were serious about being in a relationship. The other provides a softer, more emotional side, to help with any personal issues. She provides a sounding board to brainstorm feelings and situations without being aggressive or pushy. She truly listens and gives constructive and objective advice! What an outstanding and complimentary match themselves, each who stays in her lane of strengths. Together, they can without a doubt, help you find your match too, as they did for me!”
“I cannot say enough wonderful things about my experience with Elegant Introductions . Barbara and Nancy introduced me to quality gentlemen whom I would never have met on my own . They showed me respect and genuine concern for my wellbeing and happiness throughout the process. “
“If you are looking for a matchmaking service, then look no further than Elegant Introductions: Barbara is truly thoughtful and caring in matching you with your potential partner, from asking you the questions necessary to provide a great match to consistently communicating with you throughout the process to ensure your voice is being heard. You can feel that she really cares and wants the best for you, I can’t recommend them enough!”
“I never pictured myself using a matchmaker but I am so glad that I did. Barbara and Nancy made the process so easy. They introduced me to exceptional women. I highly recommend Elegant Introductions. “
“I contacted Barbara for her Matchmaking service after being referred by a friend, and I’m so glad I did. She really took the time to get to know me and to help walk me through what to expect. Matchmaking is an art. The matches she helped to facilitate were intentional and meaningful. Dating often involves internal growth, and Barbara and Nancy understand that and offered positive energy and guidance throughout the matchmaking process. The check-ins after dates were also greatly appreciated.”
“Dear Barbara, your countless acts of kindness, encouragement, and guidance have made a profound impact on my life.. You personify the term “game changer” and go further . You are a “life changer.”
“After my divorce, your wisdom and gifts as a healer and relationship consultant have given me the tools to build my new life. I am happily remarried, thanks to you, Nancy!”
Your success and happiness is our #1 goal.